How to Be Single and Still Feel Absolutely Great

Being single doesn’t mean being lonely or unhappy. In fact, it’s a great chance to explore yourself, practice self-love, and enjoy life your own way.

With Black Valentine (April 14th) coming up, there are tons of joyful things you can do to make this day feel special—even while flying solo.

Single life is still full of joy

How to Stay Happy While Being Single

Originating in South Korea, Black Valentine is a day dedicated to singles, celebrated on April 14th following Red Valentine (Feb 14) and White Valentine (Mar 14).
Black Valentine quickly gained popularity among Asian youth for its message—it’s a time to celebrate singlehood and the beautiful freedom of a relationship-free life.

When it first emerged, many thought Black Valentine was simply a day to comfort the lonely. But in reality, some choose to be single—not because they haven’t found the right one, but because they want to be.

These people don’t spend time wondering “How can I be happy while single?” To them, being single means more room to experience life, more time to follow their curiosity, and a deeper understanding of themselves.

That deeper self-understanding becomes the foundation of self-love. That’s the true meaning behind Black Valentine—a reminder to love yourself. Only when you know how to love yourself can you truly love someone else.

Being happy while single is easy when you know how to love yourself

How to Make Black Valentine a Blast—Even Alone

The best way to enjoy being single—on Black Valentine or any day—is to show yourself love and stay open to new experiences.

1. Treat Yourself

Pamper yourself with the things you love. Maybe that’s a relaxing spa day, a delicious dinner at your favorite spot, or a cozy movie night with your go-to snacks.

Avoid comparing yourself to others—everyone has their own unique charm. Be confident and appreciate what you have.

2. Immerse Yourself in the Arts

Do things that bring you joy and help you unwind—especially if you're an art lover. Is there a concert, show, or art exhibition you’ve been eyeing? Now’s the perfect time to say “yes.”

Going to a concert or live music brings unforgettable memories

3. Reconnect with Friends and Family

If your besties are single too, throw a fun party with great food, drinks, and laughter. Don’t hesitate to spend quality time with your loved ones—they’re a source of joy and support.

4. Try Something New

Take a cooking class, learn to draw, pick up a new language, or dive into mindfulness and meditation. Anything that sparks your curiosity is worth exploring—it’ll enrich your life in meaningful ways.

When you're busy discovering the world, you won’t need to ask “How to be happy while single?”—because you’ll already be living joyfully.

Try cooking jajangmyeon like the Koreans do on Black Valentine!

5. Go on a Trip

Travel solo or with your single crew—either way, it’s a refreshing escape. Exploring new places, meeting new people, and gathering new experiences will deepen your love for life.

Every trip brings freedom and growth. You’ll realize you can be single and still be full of passion, wonder, and courage to embrace the world.

6. Enjoy a “Me Time” Outing

Have you ever gone to a movie, coffee shop, or shopping trip all by yourself? It may feel awkward at first, but it gets easier—and more freeing—the more you try.

Solo outings aren’t lonely. In fact, they help you connect with yourself. It’s a gentle way to embrace joyful singlehood without needing anyone else. With a bit of courage and curiosity, you’ll discover a whole new world just for you.

7. Write Down What You're Grateful For

Every day, list three things you’re thankful for—a sunny morning, a delicious cup of coffee, or simply your good health.

This small habit builds up a huge amount of positive emotion. Gratitude helps you feel fulfilled from the inside—a simple trick to feel happy while single, without waiting for someone to bring joy into your life.

8. Do Something You’ve Been Putting Off

What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but kept delaying? Start journaling? Try dancing? Redecorate your room? Now is the time—because you deserve to prioritize yourself.

When you focus on what you want and turn “someday” into “today,” you’ll find deep satisfaction in living your best solo life—on your own terms.

Continue what you once left unfinished and pursue it with joy

9. Be Kind to Someone Else

Helping others—whether through a kind word, giving up your seat on the bus, or gifting something small—makes you feel connected and uplifted.

Spreading kindness fills you with warmth. It’s a uniquely meaningful way to enjoy being single—with empathy, humanity, and heart.

10. Tidy Up and Refresh Your Space

A clean, bright space instantly lifts your mood. Take time to declutter your desk, fold your clothes, or brighten up a corner with a few cute decorations.

Cleaning your space also cleanses your emotions. It’s a simple but powerful way to enjoy being single—because a cozy home can make your heart feel lighter, too.

A beautiful living space always boosts your mood

Final Thoughts

Remember, being single is a completely normal and potentially wonderful phase—if you know how to enjoy it. Love will arrive when it’s meant to. Until then, don’t hesitate to explore your curiosity and love yourself deeply.

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