Vu Lan Gifts for Parents: 65+ Thoughtful Ideas to Show Your Love

Vu Lan is a special occasion for children to express our deep gratitude and love for their parents. Selecting a meaningful Vu Lan gift for your parents is a beautiful way to convey your heartfelt thanks.

In the spirit of Vu Lan, let’s explore some thoughtful and practical gift ideas that will make this day even more memorable and warm. Continue reading to discover perfect Vu Lan gift suggestions from Chus, helping you share love and care with those who raised and nurtured you.

CHUS suggests gift ideas for Vu Lan season

A Brief Introduction to Vu Lan

Vu Lan, also known as Yulan Festival, celebrated on the 15th day of the 7th lunar month, is one of the most important Buddhist holidays in Vietnam. It’s a time for children to honor the immense love and sacrifices of their parents and also to pray for the souls that have yet to find peace. In 2024, Vu Lan will be observed on August 18th in the Gregorian calendar.

According to legend, a Buddhist monk Maudgalyayana had a mother suffering in hell due to her sins during her lifetime. She had become a hungry ghost, a spirit unable to eat even when food was given because it turned into flames. Maudgalyayana sought the Buddha's guidance on how to save his mother, and he was advised to gather monks to pray for her. The 15th day of the 7th lunar month was chosen as the most auspicious time to perform these rituals.

Today, Vu Lan transcends religious boundaries and has become a beautiful cultural tradition, a time for everyone to reflect on and appreciate their loved ones.

The Meaning of Giving Vu Lan Gifts to Parents

1. Expressing Filial Piety:

Of course, no gift can ever compare to the boundless love and sacrifices parents make for their children. However, choosing a Vu Lan gift is a way to express your sincere feelings and gratitude.

2. Strengthening Family Bonds:

Vu Lan gifts are symbols of unity, helping to strengthen family ties. Each gift you choose carries a message of love, creating warm and memorable moments that bring family members closer together.

3. Bringing Joy to Parents:

Even small Vu Lan gifts, when given with sincerity, can bring immense joy and happiness to your parents. You’ll see their faces light up with joy as they feel the love you’ve poured into each gift.

4. Showing Care and Concern:

Vu Lan gifts are a way to show your care and concern for your parents’ well-being. Through these gifts, you demonstrate that you are always thinking of their health and happiness, and wish to share life’s joys and challenges with them.

5. Creating Cherished Memories:

The gift you give on Vu Lan will become a part of the cherished memories that your family holds dear. These moments will be preserved forever, becoming stories that you and your family will share, remember, and treasure throughout your lives.

Vu Lan season helps many families create memories

Gift Ideas for Mothers

Health and Beauty Care Gifts

Health is always the most important thing every child wants to give their mother. Health care gifts not only show concern but also provide long-term practical benefits.

Home Spa Combo

A complete spa set helps mom have relaxing moments like at a resort right at home. Includes relaxing lavender essential oil, purifying Himalayan bath salt, natural skin cream, and scented candles.

According to research by the Vietnamese Institute of Psychology, having a personal relaxation space helps reduce stress by 40% in middle-aged women.

Afternoon Tea Scented Candle, Relaxation Candle, Gift Candle, Nice Gift, Stress Relief, Home Fragrance, White Tea And Musk Aroma

539,000 ₫

Rose Quartz Facial Roller (Get a 15ml Massage Oil upon purchase)

495,000 ₫

Jasmine Essential Oil, Aromatherapy With Jasmine Oil, Sweet Aroma For Relaxation, Relax Gift, Gift Ideas, Natural Essential Oils, 10Ml

389,400 ₫

"Care Box" Gift Set, Eye Pillow And Pillow Mist, Personalized Embroidery, Natural Ingredients, Aromatherapy, Health Gift Box, Elegant Gift Boxes, Corporate Gift

525,000 ₫

Special Herbal Tea Set + Ceramic Teapot

Premium tea set including stress-relieving chamomile tea, liver-cleansing artichoke tea, warming ginger honey tea, and skin-beautifying rose tea.

Comes with a traditional ceramic teapot set. Each cup of tea is not just a drink but a moment of meditation helping mom find peace.

"Good Time" Gift Box, Tender Care In Every Touch, Tea Gift Set With Porcelain Cup, Honey & Chocolate, Specialty Gift, Birthday Gift, Corporate Gifts

990,000 ₫

Moc Truly Hue’s 2025 Traditional Gift Box, Gift From Ancient Town, Hue Specialty, Handcrafted Treats, Artistic Hand-painted Gift Box, Corporate Gift

515,000 ₫

Moc Truly Hue’s 2025 “Phap Lam” Gift Box, Gift From Ancient Town, Hue Specialty, Vietnamese Traditional Food Gift, Artistic Hand-painted Gift Box, Corporate Gift

575,000 ₫

"Sweet Memory" Gift Box, Delivering Vietnamese Essence, Tea Set With Cashews, Honey & Souvenir Magnets, Elegant Gift Package, Vietnamese Specialties

660,000 ₫

Natural Essential Oils

Multi-purpose essential oil set including relaxing lavender, decongestant eucalyptus, headache-relieving peppermint, mosquito-repelling lemongrass, and mood-lifting sweet orange.

Lemon Eucalyptus Essential Oil

81,400 ₫

Jasmine Essential Oil, Aromatherapy With Jasmine Oil, Sweet Aroma For Relaxation, Relax Gift, Gift Ideas, Natural Essential Oils, 10Ml

389,400 ₫

Hotel De Luna Reed Diffuser

220,000 ₫

Encounter Essential Oil Jasmine

220,000 ₫

Personalized Handmade Gifts

Handmade or personalized gifts carry their own stories, showing the time investment and dedication of the giver.

Personalized Leather Handbag with Name Engraving

Premium genuine leather handbag with vintage design, can be engraved with name or custom message. Leather is specially treated to be water-resistant and becomes more beautiful with use. Perfect size for both work and leisure.

Crochet Fabric With Vachetta Leather Bag, Unique Eye-Catching Design, Exclusive Design, Trendy Style, Unique Fashion Accessory

1,800,000 ₫

Mini Leather Purse, Elegant Leather Wallet, Mini Wallet, Leather Accessories, Cowhide Material, Elegant Style, Personalized Gift

350,000 ₫

Premium Genuine Leather & Canvas Tote Bag, Modern Tote Bag Design, High-Quality Italian Canvas And Leather, Trendy Tote Bag

5,500,000 ₫

Family Clay Portrait Frame

Highly personalized art piece recreating happy family moments using unique clay material. Every detail is carefully handcrafted, creating an extremely special and one-of-a-kind gift.

Custom Clay Portrait, 11 x 11cm, Perfect Reimagining Of Personal Impression, Realistic Colored Clay Artwork, Personalized Gift, Surprising Gift

420,000 ₫

Custom Clay Art, Small, Personalized Portrait And Message, Up To 4 People, Custom Clay Portrait, Adorable Style, Personalized Gifts, Wedding Gifts

390,000 ₫

Custom Clay Art, Large, Personalized Portrait And Message, 2-4 People, Custom Clay Figurine, Adorable Style, Personalized Gifts, Wedding Gifts

1,150,000 ₫

Couple Clay Art, 25cm, Personalized Photo And Message, Custom Clay Painting, Cute Portrait, Personalized Gift, Wedding Gift, Birthday Gift

3,200,000 ₫

Handmade Paper Flower Art

Delicate handmade art with each flower carefully crafted from premium paper. Unlike real flowers that fade, this gift will remain beautiful forever like a mother's love. Available in colors and flower types that mom loves.

Handmade Paper Flower Painting - Secret Garden MAYPAPERFLOWER 30x40cm Wooden Frame, Corporate Gift

936,000 ₫

Handmade Paper Flower Painting - Wild Flower Maypaperflower With 30x40cm Wooden Frame, Corporate Gift

940,000 ₫

Lotus Stamp Painting, Handmade Paper Flower Art, Custom Lettering, 20 x 25 cm Size, Handmade Gifts, Home Décor, Unique Gifts, Personalized Gifts, Corporate Gift

580,000 ₫

Paper Flower Painting, Lily of the Valley MAYPAPERFLOWER Wooden Frame of 20 x 25cm, Interior Decoration, Handmade Gifts, Personalized Gifts, Corporate Gift

462,000 ₫

Spiritual and Experience Gifts

At middle age, many mothers begin focusing on personal development and seeking spiritual experiences.

Handmade Notebook + Engraved Pen

Gift set including handmade genuine leather notebook with unbleached paper and premium wooden pen with name engraving. Helps mom record beautiful memories, reflect on life, and feel your thoughtful care.

Engraved Maple Wood Pen with Case, Exquisite Craftsmanship, Personalized Gift, Corporate Gift

410,640 ₫

10%

369,576 ₫

Personalized "Imprint" Gift Box, Preserving Genuine Emotions, Gift Set With Bamboo Tumbler, Notebook & Pen, Premium Corporate Gift, Birthday Gift

1,689,750 ₫

20%

1,351,800 ₫

Deluxe Agarwood Pen Engraved Name Included Wooden Pen Case, Long-lasting Sandalwood Material, Exquisite Craftsmanship, Premium Gift, Corporate Gift

1,744,040 ₫

10%

1,569,636 ₫

Fragrant Rosewood Pen Engraved Name Included Wooden Pen Case, Elegant Red-Brown Color, Refined and Luxurious, Premium Pen

564,040 ₫

10%

507,636 ₫

Premium Health Supplements

Nutritional supplement set designed specifically for middle-aged women. Supports skin care from within and boosts immunity during pre-menopause.

Freeze Dried Stevia Powder, 15 Packets, Green Nutrition From Nature, Organic Vegetables, Healthy Weight Loss, Convenient Meal, Convenient Health Gift

144,000 ₫

Organic Artichoke Extract, Made From Fresh Artichoke Leaves Grown On Organic-Certified Farms, A Pure Product From Nature

198,000 ₫

Noni Pellet, Functional Food, Detox Swiftlet Nest Pill, Natural Swiftlet Nest Pill, Swiftlet Nest Essence Pill

325,000 ₫

Calcium Max Nut Milk Set, 12 Tubes, Awaken Your Powerful Body, Calcium Boosting Nut Milk, Nutritious Breakfast, Convenient Breakfast, Health Gift

168,000 ₫

Gift Ideas for Fathers

Though men may express emotions less than women, fathers also deeply appreciate attention from their children. Choosing gifts for dad requires attention to practicality and lifestyle compatibility.

Premium Handcrafted Leather Wallet

Men's wallet made from 100% genuine cowhide, handcrafted with multiple convenient compartments and compact design. Can engrave monogram or dad's name on request. Genuine leather has the characteristic of becoming more beautiful and shiny with long use.

Basic Genuine Leather Cardholder, Compact Design, High-Quality Genuine Leather Material, Sturdy Closure Strap, Flat Design Without Bulging

390,000 ₫

Leather Minimalist Wallet

470,820 ₫

10%

423,738 ₫

Lady Bug Wallet, Impressive And Unique Design, Eye-Catching Round Bead Strap, Compact Size, Minimalist Style, Easy To Use

300,000 ₫

Leather Wallet For Men, Elegant Leather Wallet, Men Wallet, Leather Accessories, Cowhide Material, Elegant Style, Personalized Gift

450,000 ₫

Specialty Tea Set + Elegant Teapot

Set including premium Taiwanese oolong tea, fragrant Xinjiang tea, and ceramic teapot. Perfect for fathers who enjoy tea and learning about tea culture.

Digestive Harmony Herbal Tea, Strong Digestion For Daily Bliss, Hue Herbal Tea Bag, Natural Herb, Heath Gifts For Family, Vietnamese Gift

270,000 ₫

Herbal Beauty Tea, Nurturing Women's Health And Beauty, High Quality Tea Bag, Hue Herbal Tea, Natural Herbs, Vietnamese Gifts, Health Gift For Her

300,000 ₫

Royal Five Ginseng Tea, Imperial Body Treatment, Premium Tea Bags, Hue Herbal Tea, Natural Herbs, Delightful Taste, Vietnamese Gifts, Health Gifts

390,000 ₫

Hue Royal Herbal Tea Gift Set, 5 Organic Herbal Teas, Luxury Herbal Tea Gift Box, Exclusive Gift Box For Family, Corporate Gift, Vietnamese Gift

2,550,000 ₫

25%

1,920,000 ₫

How to Choose Vu Lan Gifts for Parents by Age

Parents in Their 40s

At this age, parents are still active and developing their careers. Mothers often care about appearance and personal style, while fathers focus on work and showing status.

For 40-year-old mothers: Premium skincare products, light perfumes, fashion accessories like genuine leather bags, silk scarves, or delicate jewelry. Skill courses like cooking, flower arranging, or yoga are also perfect for mom to develop personal interests and have relaxation time.

Thai - Bauhinia And Fairies Silk Scarf, Embroidered Large Flower Silk Scarf, Green Silk Scarf, Designer Scarf, Gift For Relatives

599,000 ₫

Bàn King And Red Dao People Silk Scarf, Designer Scarf, Art-Printed Scarf, Souvenir Gift, Shoulder Wrap Scarf

559,000 ₫

Silk Linen Scarf With Embroidered Flowers, Silk Scarf Wrap, Scarf To Match Body-Hugging Dress, Beach Wrap, Embroidered Floral Silk Scarf

1,495,000 ₫

"Metal" Silk Scarf, 85x90cm, Five Elements Collection, Grey & White Ombre Silk Scarf, Natural Silk Scarf, Feng Shui Accessories, Vietnamese Gift

850,000 ₫

For 40-year-old fathers: Office accessories like premium leather wallets, genuine leather belts, silk ties, or high-end pens. Gifts that show style like watches, custom-tailored shirts, or tech devices supporting work like wireless headphones or premium power banks.

Mini Leather Wallet, Genuine Cowhide Material, Simple Design, Casual Style, Exquisite Craftsmanship, Compact Size, Corporate Gift

320,000 ₫

Exclusive Personalized Leather Lighter, Celebrate Sophisticated Touch, Luxurious Lighter, Engraved Lighter, Personalized Gift For Him, Customized Gift

780,000 ₫

"The Festive Season" Gift Box, Vietnamese Delicacies, Phung Thi Apricot Craft Liqueur, Coffee Blossom Honey, Chocolate And Fruit, Luxurious Gift Set, Corporate Gift

1,320,000 ₫

Parents in Their 50s

This is when parents start paying more attention to health and quality of life. They appreciate gifts that bring comfort and health care.

For 50-year-old mothers: Foot massage machines, neck and shoulder massage pillows, health-protecting foods like forest honey, bird's nest, cordyceps. Products that improve sleep like latex pillows, temperature-regulating blankets, or humidifiers are also very popular.

Microwave Heating Herbal Pack For Back, Pain Relief Back Compress, Lower Back Pain Relief, Reducing Spinal Degeneration

571,320 ₫

Microwave Heating Herbal Pack For Shoulder And Neck, Pain Relief Compress, Hot Compress, Neck And Shoulder Pain Relief

549,000 ₫

Coffee Scented Bag, Room Deodorizing Scented Bag, Closet Hanging Scented Bag, Room Hanging Scented Bag, Pure Coffee Scented Bag

165,000 ₫

Microwave Heating Herbal Pack For Feet, Foot Pain Relief Compress, Mental Relaxation, Muscle Pain Therapy

829,440 ₫

For 50-year-old fathers: Health care devices like blood pressure monitors, back massage machines, massage chairs. Sports support products like professional running shoes, gym equipment, or supplements for athletes. Herbal tea sets and premium wine also suit this age.

Old Tree Tea, Organic Tea, Plant And Harvest By Hand, Organic Techniques, Local Sources, Vietnamese Tea, Gift For Health, Corporate Gift

583,000 ₫

Wooden Go Game Set, Luxurious Board Games, Luxurious Game Set, Premium Chess Set, Gift For Friends

5,400,000 ₫

Mùa Craft Sake Classic, Authentic Vietnamese Sake, Taste Of Vietnam, Diverse Flavors, Prize-Winning Sake, Gift Ideas, Premium Gift, Gourmet Gift, Corporate Gift

365,000 ₫

Ceramic Octagonal Teapot Set, Wattle Green Collection, Fire Glaze Ceramics, Skillful Techniques, High Quality, Decoration, Vietnamese Ceramics, Corporate Gift

1,050,000 ₫

10%

945,000 ₫

Parents 60 and Above

At this age, parents often prefer peace and treasure family gathering moments. They care more about spiritual values and family memories than material things.

For 60+ mothers: Family photo albums, digital photo frames to view pictures of children and grandchildren, spiritual gifts like agarwood prayer beads or wooden Buddha statues. Experience services like short tours, traditional theater tickets, or books about spirituality and life philosophy also bring great joy.

Kissing Line, Dried Flower Frame, Multiple Size Options, Sturdy Frame, High Durability, Home Decoration, Women's Day Gift For Her, Personalized Gift

370,000 ₫

Dried Flower And Personalized Photo Frame, Preserve The Beauty Of Moment, Handmade Dried Flower Frame, Dried Flower Art, Women's Day Gift For Her

295,000 ₫

Dried Flower Bouquet For Happy Birthday, Birthday Greeting Frame, A Timeless Piece Of Natural Art, Unique Gifts, 8/3 Gifts, Personalized Gift For Her

410,000 ₫

Personalized Photo And Pressed Flower Frame (Max 2 Photos), Handcrafted Keepsake Frames, Thoughtful Gift Frame, Personalized Present Idea, Unique Gift

650,000 ₫

For 60+ fathers: Classic radios, premium chess or Chinese chess sets, books about history or memoirs. Gifts that help dad enjoy retirement like gardening tools, relaxation chairs, or coffee makers so dad can enjoy peaceful mornings.

Cholorantus Marinated Tea, Hand-picked Tea, Vietnamese Tea, Thai Nguyen Tea, Bach Hac Tea, Mindfulness Tea, Permaculture In Tea Cultivation, Tea Gift

583,000 ₫

Premium Ancient Seed Green Tea From Thai Nguyen Midland, Tea Bud, Premium Green Tea, Hand-picked, Safe Ingredients, Good For Health

249,000 ₫

Thai Nguyen Green Tea, Specialties, Premium Tea, Natural Ingredients, Healthy Beverages, Pure Green Tea, Antioxidants, No Preservatives

165,000 ₫

First Grade Fish Hook Green Tea, Thai Nguyen Specialties, Vietnamese Tea, Young Leaves, Premium Green Tea, Hand-picked, Tea Gift

150,000 ₫

General Note: Regardless of age, the most important thing is observing parents' personal preferences. Some 60-year-olds are still very active and tech-savvy, while some 40-year-olds prefer quietness. Listen and observe to choose truly suitable gifts.

Family love is most important

Conclusion

This Vu Lan season, selecting the right gifts for your parents is not just a way to express gratitude but also to create memorable moments. No matter what you choose, the time and effort you put into making the day special are what truly count.

And if you’re unsure about what to gift during Vu Lan,

Explore and shop on Chus to find the perfect gifts for your parents, showing them your genuine love and appreciation!

FAQs

• When is the most meaningful time to give Vu Lan gifts?
  You can give gifts to your parents on the full moon day of the seventh lunar month or a few days earlier to have time to prepare. The most important thing is the sincerity and the loving message behind the gift, not the exact timing.
• Is it necessary to give material gifts during Vu Lan?
  It is not necessary. A family meal, heartfelt wishes, or accompanying your parents to the temple are priceless spiritual gifts. A material gift is only a means, while the true value lies in your filial piety and genuine care.
• How can you choose the right Vu Lan gift for your parents?
  Pay attention to your parents preferences, age, and actual needs. Those who enjoy experiences may like a short trip, while those focusing on health may appreciate nutritious food or wellness devices. The key is choosing a gift that reflects your understanding of them.